What is it that holds us back, and what is it that sets us free? This week we’re doing a case study on the beliefs, habits, and motivations that dictate 90% of your happiness and success. And we’ll show how a young lady stood up to learn these principles from Tony, how she went home with a new action plan, and how within two months meeting Tony, she completely transformed her life.
These five videos are an excerpt from a new project we’re developing called Outstanding Relationships. Each video is about twenty minutes long and will guide you through some of the most powerful principles of Strategic Intervention.
Enjoy!
Mark Peysha
CEO
Robbins-Madanes Training
Part 1: Emotional Patterns
In today’s video you’ll learn about how emotions are created – and how to “break down” any experience in your life into three things that you can control and use to shape the emotions you want to have. Enjoy.
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Part 2: Shaping Your Emotions
How do you change your emotions? Our culture has become overrun with messages claiming that there’s some mysterious emotional part of us that can only be influenced by a pill – as if taking an anti-depressant or anti-anxiety med were like an antibiotic that will just “wipe that problem out.” Only now are studies becoming widespread exposing the negative side-effects, risks, and failures of psychotropic drugs.
On the other hand, we all know the pull between what we want to feel and what we’re actually feeling. Ever felt sad, mad, or scared despite “knowing better” intellectually? If feeling arrives faster than thought, how can you change it with thought? Today’s session will answer those questions. Tony will help Tahnee understand what she’s really feeling when she’s “depressed” and how she can take full control of her emotional reality in a simple, practical way. You’ll also learn how to quickly understand the emotional dynamic of any person you meet. So enjoy the video, and we’ll see you soon.
Part 3: The Seven Master Steps
Strategic Interventions like to follow a master template for creating change, called the Seven Master Steps. This is a sequence refined by Tony over the years for making sure that you fully understand the person and they feel understood, so that you can direct them through the actions and experiences that will create lasting change. SI is a very active and strategic approach to coaching, where you actually give the person a short, easy task to do that will create massive changes for them. For instance, the way Tony is inviting Tahnee to “put herself in depression” is actually permanently altering the way Tahnee will experience depression in the future (i.e., she won’t have it anymore). We do a comprehensive training on these steps, but in today’s mini-training you’ll see how Tony helps Tahnee by putting the seven master steps to work.
Part 4: Life Stages
Why do some coaching methods fail – leading to a quick “pump up” followed by a loss of momentum… while Strategic Interventions create permanent change where people not only help themselves, but then turn around to help others? The focus of Strategic Intervention is to create a processional effect – where the person who previously needed help, now becomes the helper, like ripples expanding on a pond. Very often a person who gets helped by Tony, when we check in with them later, reports that they’ve had a major effect on 5-10 other people in their lives.
You see, in order for personal change to be truly effective, it must a) engage the person’s innermost human needs b) empower that person in their relationships c) be right for their stage of life – in other words, trigger a whole new level of growth in the person d) ultimately lead to leadership and contribution – helping others.
Today we’ll focus on a) your needs and c) your life stage. These two go together. You see, every moment of your life, every decision you make is influenced by the way you meet what we call your Six Human Needs. This is a universal way to understand anyone in your life – especially yourself. If you can understand and create a change in your human needs, you transform your life (guaranteed). The second factor is understanding life stages. You see, life is made up of a series of life stages, where the “game changes” and requires a whole new approach. If you can understand and manage your stage in life, you’ll trigger a whole new level of growth. And our students know that if they can understand someone’s life stage, they can easily help them meet the priorities that will move them forward.
Part 5: Paying It Forward (Breakthrough Day!)
As we said, lasting change is rooted in our needs to grow and to contribute beyond ourselves. Raise your standards in any area of life, and soon you’ll be looking around to see whom you can help. And that’s the next level for you.
Now that we’ve gone through the Six Human Needs, today we’re going to see how by understanding her needs and the way she has been using them, Tahnee made a conscious choice that transformed her life, career, relationship… you name it. And as we visit with Tahnee several years later, you’ll see how by making a commitment to growth and contribution, Tahnee found herself not only prospering but becoming a leader and a positive example… even to her mother.
Enjoy!
I hope you’ve enjoyed this training series as much as Cloe and I have. PLEASE SHARE YOUR COMMENTS AND QUESTIONS below – and keep your eyes on your inbox for your next video from Robbins-Madanes Training.
Talk soon,
Mark Peysha
CEO
Robbins-Madanes Training
The videos are just brilliant. Watching Tony in action, along with having the information in between is superb! Thank you.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS , FOR IT HELPS TO UNDERSTAND MORE OF THE PATTERNS OF DEPRESSION . I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW IF CHANGING THE POSTURE AND CHANGING THE THOUGHTS AND FORCING OURSEVS TO SMILE WOULD CHANGE SOMETHING IN A MEANINGFUL OR LASTING WAY?
I am from Mexico. All this information is new for me and this videos are really amazing. Now I really understand all about the six human needs. Thank you a lot.
Dear Tony, Thank you so much for these insights and truths. They are enough to wake up even the most stubborn thinking patterns. I have been stirred up when absorbing the information. I am so close to knowing what must be done.
I have had an unsolvable problem in my marriage which is my husband feeling attraction to men after nine years of me thinking I had found happiness with my soul mate finally! Now, it is almost three years later. We thought he could get over it as it was a response to early childhood abuse and lack of love from a father; but the problem seems to be getting worse and I have been drowning in tears, depression and then choosing to be happy and then feeling rejection from my husband which starts the cycle all over again. We do not share a bed anymore and my loneliness for my mate has been over whelming…
My fear of separation has to do with many things you mentioned within these tapes…my age, feeling that I will never find the love and connection I have dreamed of…losing my place in the work world (I am 62) and facing a life of poverty and loneliness while aging at the same time.
I suppose the problem has met my needs to stay put for security and to continue trying to get my needs for love and connection met. Even though it doesn’t completely, he still comes home every night and there seems to be some sort of mormalcy.
After watching these tapes, I realize that my needs are not being met on a very personal level and that the “problem” is stealing away my ability to be a feminine woman with the certainty that I am loved by a man and allowed to feel feminine.
There is so much more…but…suffice to say that my thought patterns have been the inability to accept what had happened to my husband. He has not been able to accept it either. He is a devout Evangelical Christian with the desire to teach or pastor and of coarse the lifestyle of homosexuality is not approved of…He has been so full of sorrow and self contempt..my heart bleeds for him as well as for myself. I just want to be healthy and happy and move on but have felt it impossible to leave the man I thought was the love of my life.
I know that we need a weekend such as the one on the tapes so that we can truly discover our truths and what must be done going forward.
Thank you so much for offering these tapes for those of us who are lost and want desperately to be found.
Sincerely, Linda Negron
Tony you should be given Saint Hood along with Saint Teresa!!!!! Thank you Aroha & Smiles Maria
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Hi Tony,
I’ve been inspired by your work for many years. There is nobody like you!!!!
I first purchased Personal Power II, about 10 years ago, when I went through a painful divorce. We had 3 children.
Here recently, I took the CD’s back out and dusted them off. I have begun again, to dive back in, and I feel a renewed sense of passion and interest!
This renewed interest has led me to your website today!
The “problem” I have been hanging onto has been my idenity over the past 11 years of a “single mom”.
It has brought me significance, certainty, connection & love, variety, even contribution as I am been a “successful” single mom, for others to look up to for hope. All my 3 children are now grown, in college and working successfully. They are a wonderful blessing to me, I have worked very hard to raise them on my own.
I am recently engaged and have struggled with feelings of being stuck as I try move towards “giving up” an identity that has afforded me so much. But I will take the risk and the marriage plunge again!
Thank you very much for providing the tools to set myself free!! Life is certain to change!!
God Bless you Tony,
Leann
PS-I’m a weight loss consultant trainer. I have enjoyed changing lives for the past 7 years! Two weeks ago, due to downsizing, I was laid off. As I consider my next opportunity, I am very interested in learning more about becoming a Strategic Interventionist. I would LOVE to work for you, bet you’ve heard that before! What advice would you give to point me in the right direction?
TONNY AND MADANES:
I REALLY THANKS YOU FOR THE WAY YOU EXPLAIN AND SHOW US ALL THE WAY WE CAN MAKE DIFERENT IN OURS LIVE.
GOD BLESS YOU… IT IS VERY USEFULL.
great informative stuff, Tony.
I have a question.. if you were dealing with a “clinically” depressed person could/would you use the same techniques?
Thanks.
Thank you so much!
You inspired me!
and its a generous gift! thank you!
I want to Thank you, my husband has progressively become
a true alcoholic (Vodka straight 90% of his waking hours) I have dealt with this for years and even though I am retired and so is he, we are both 65. I keep putting off doing anything about it. I am scared of being unable to support myself. This is causing depression and multiple other side effects on me and the whole family.
This has helped me understand a lot and I know that I will take action. I know that if I don’t, something really bad is going to happen. Thanks again.
Thanks Tony and Cloe for the great work and seeing the break through that was made on your video segment which I will have to review again ..Why I know some one with depression and also is in recovery from major addictions and I can see that being duly addicted where the addiction to depression is stronger then the addiction to substances and how stuck he is.
I been trying to help break his pattern and now have better tools to call him on his crap as you did Tony in the video
Thanks again appreciate the great work
Randy
Wow! I am impressed. The videos on this website sum up my mood changes 100%. I suffer from two conditions eubp and ptsd.I am having to leave my husband as he also has a mental health problem and there are children involved.I go through the crazy eight and this is my pattern i get deppressed,then I get angry, then I lash out, then I feel guilty and then I repeat the circle.This predominant pattern comes from my perception of myself and other people,and my violent past does play much in the way I feel about myself.Following these videos is giving me new ways of dealing with things,I am beginning to realize I can cope by myself and dont need to rely on others to help me do this.I live in the uk, but this site is proving a great help in helping me understand my emotional pattern.
Wow, I am feeling different in the way I am viewing my attitude and feelings. Eye opener for sure!!!
Hi Tony,
Thank you for what you are doing to help others have a better life. It is NO mistake that I found you on the internet.
God Bless You!
Olive Olson
Tony and Cloe,
I have learned a lot about myself through watching your videos. I feel I have seen myself grow and want to give to others in what ever way works with my skills and gifts. I hope to be signing up to take your on line classes and put myself in a position where I can motivate and empower others while still growing myself. Thank you again for all the wonderful work you are doing.
Barbar Claire
I am learning so much about myself and now this is teaching me why i haven’t been able to achieve the things and dreams i have worked so hard at yet failed miserably. Life and game changing information here and now!
How do you thank someone for such a huge and wonderful gift Tony your amazing!!!
Although I have watched some of Tony’s other videos and read various training, and thought they were useful, after seeing Tony in action makes a HUGE difference. The explanations by Dr. Madanes are brilliant. I will be watching all of the video’s again, at least once, to better learn the lessons in each as I will be starting a coach training program next month and want to assure that I “walk-the-walk” and not just talk-the-talk.
How do I use these tips to overcome overeating issues?
Thank you for sharing your videos. Your videos have taught me quite a bit of myself I had failed to admit. You are a blessing to a lot of us that are STUCK! Again thank you for doing what you do!
This was not a mistake that I ran into you.
OMG!!
Thank you for your deddication to humanity and the collective consciousness that you are posativly creating, there is hope for humanity, love changes every mollicule within our DNA our exsistance is no longer of selfishness but for the greater good. I’m humbled and honared to be a part of this transformational message,i do believe there is my soal mate out there and i am dedicatted in being the best human and coach possable, i feel God will connect me with my soal mate to give me that extra support i need that we all need,God bless.
Best wishes:
Lanna Diamond
Thank you, Mr. Robbins and Cloe Madanes for sharing your knowledge As a result of Tahnee’s transformation,I learned about the Triad, The Crazy Eight Pattern and the difference between quality problem and a safe problem. The content of the video is AWESOME!
FINALLY!!!!!! I understand what I have been doing and WHY!!
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
i have not been able to access part 4 or 5
or last 25 minutes that Tony is speaking!!!!!
THIS IS REALY A VERY USEFULL TOOL TO MAKE A DIFERENT IN MY LIFE AND THE LIFE OF WHO I REALY CARE. GOD BLESS YOU FOR SHEARING THOSE TRUE.
Thanks a ton for splendid effort!Such simple explanations for so damn complex issues.God bless!
I am studying to get my NLP Master Practitioner Certificate.
We teach what we need to learn and these videos are such a gift that you have given to others – How generous of spirit you are. I received such important information that I will use to transform my own life and will then be able to help others do the same.
Thank you.
15 years ago my sister told me about Tony’s books, I started reading them and then listening to Tony’s speeches over and over. even once attended in to one of his talks in Nova Scotia. it was one of those experiences that you can’t forget, the flow of energy was unbelievable. those books and tapes changed my life beyond my imagination. After six months I was able to go back to school, lose 50 the extra weight that I gained through 10 years in just one summer, start an independent life, not be afraid of challenges and be proud of what I am. After all those years, still when ever I feel down, I go and search in youtube or his website,listen to his speeches and get back to the track.
I just wanted Tony to know that he touched many people’s lives and I am one of those lucky one. I Thank you with all my heart.
Once upon a time Tony was the first person I trusted on this planet. In 1987 and the firewalk weekend I opened to rediscovering that inner love within. I found out that others got something different. Back then I wanted to learn from him so that I too might impart this gift to others from realizing we all have this power within. I invisioned the expansion with a simalar format of how it is today. A mutual friend who went to work for him said he was just into money. I couldn’t believe her persective. Yet now it is reversed. I wonder just how pretentious the people on these vidios are, like they don’t track, they seem staged. The results don’t seem authentic. Then with getting the labor day vidio with him saying to support the people going to war to kill others. I never could trust again any integrity with his words. He keeps changing his stories and his motto, “I always lie with integrity” no longer imparts any integrity. Shirley Whitney
Tony
I had very sudden shift in my life; due to a complete physical. My doctor only had the worst news about the state of my health. At the time I had 18 different drugs that I had to take everyday many of them twice.
I can only guess that is was hearing my truths that caused the great shift into a deep consciousness of me. Suddenly all the power, I had let slip away came rushing back.
It hit me; my life wasn’t my problem. I was my life’s problem.How I previded for myself my basic needs with food,drugs, depression. But, it’s so hard to see unless something happens to slap you into reality. To see and admit that; yes you are human and yes being human you tend to cause all of your own worst pain and troubles. It’s not the wife, the job, lack of money. It’s lack of you in control of you.
I didn’t want to be depressed; yet it gave me what I needed so bad. I knew it was only temporary; in my mind I didn’t know any other way to meet my needs.
However, that day was the defining day. Because that was the day that I was given back my personal powers of life. I wrote a book; and it has been published. But I for got to tell you; I was also 386 pounds. But no more;I no longer have any drugs, I have to take. I have lost down to 237 pounds now. I workout mostly 5 days a week. Something about that to; that day at the doctors office; I was told that I had COPD (a lung disease). Yet, I can “Run” up to three miles, or do 32 miles on a bike up hill.
Taking my powers of life back; and learning how I was creating all of the bad things in my life. If I could create the bad; that means that I can also create the great. It’s truely the power we have within us to change anything or everything. Thanks
Dennis
Tony,
I have watched many of your life changing videos and the concepts are the same regarding the 6 human needs, but of course, the stories that bring them out are different.
I am about to put voice to my deepest fear, one that I know has been the reason for my self sabotage over and over again.
The key people in my life have realized it, and I have been VERY unhappy at that reveal. My teacher in elementary school wrote on a report, Trudy has the potential for better. My mother punished me, but that report card had only grades A and grades B. To me it was fine, the teacher said I had potential for more and my mother did not celebrate my ‘good grades’ she punished me for not reaching my potential. I have NEVER failed a test in my life.
Later, in college, I was always at the head of my class, yet my professor called me in to her office and said, “Trudy, you are without doubt the best student in my class, BUT you only do just enough to be better than the person you think is your biggest challenge. I propose to you, that your biggest competitor is yourself. You have more in you. You need to do better than your last best effort.” I was NOT happy with her, but it did leave a lingering thought and I started thinking about it. I left that program when all I had left to complete it was my internship. I would have been the first to graduate from it with honors since they started the program.
Both my parents are VERY successful. Now that success cannot be measured in money, because that is not where they scored. Both are public servants, and I do not mean government officials. Both lived lives of serving those around them and both of them received Orders of Distinctions from the government of Jamaica for their service to others and the impact of lives in the nation. In fact, my mother received 2 ODs and met the Queen of England when she came to Jamaica because of it. Do you KNOW what it is like to grow up in that shadow?
I have had scores of people ASSUME that with my background that I have the DNA of awesomeness and assume I would be like my parents. I was tortured by my fellow elementary school students and people who passed me on the road who knew of or knew my parents and would feel instantly responsible for pointing out my flaws and how I must be a disappointment to my parents who clearly would have made different choices.
At this point in my life, I am very happily married to my soul mate and thankfully he meets pretty much all of my needs so I have been very comfortable living a very quiet non-public life with him.
The problem is, I do seek that challenge and I do want to serve but I don’t feel capable of living up to my parents and while I have come to peace with that, I keep feeling that I am truly bottling up a greatness that who knows what it would do if it really showed up, and if I failed, I would hate it to prove that I really do not have that greatness everyone claims to see, and that deep inside I sneakily think is there.
I sabotage every moment that I am at a breakthrough level. Just as I achieve a slimmer appearance, the men start flirting more, I notice the attention levels from others change with the spotlight heading my way and BAM! I make sure the spotlight heads in another direction. I immediately get fat. I am very stunning when slim, but I do not like the attention for all the WRONG reasons. I do not want my attention to come from what I look like.
As soon as I start something, I stop just short. It’s not that I am a quitter – because there are many constants in my life, I just quit at breakthrough, and never make it to the top. It is very lonely at the top. At the top you look out at the crowd, you are not among them, but with the pack, with the crowd, there is no spotlight and my flaws and failures, and the level of expectation of delivery are all safe and mediocre.
Recently, I joined a network marketing organization and the undisputed leader, the #1 income earner is in my estimation, an ordinary person who has achieved extraordinary results. Of course that puts every excuse out the window and I believe I have had an issue with that because if I think him ordinary, and I see his accomplishments as spotlight worthy, then what is MY problem? What is MY excuse for not achieving even the most limited of accomplishments?
Well, for one thing, I have avoided relationships that ask too much of me so I do not have a lot of warm contacts that I have influence with. Frankly, I have not needed them. My husband has been the most awesome experience in my life and if I were built like Suzy Homemaker, I think I would be living a life of permanent perfection.
However, I am not Suzy Homemaker, but I do find lots of benefit being the stay at home wife whining about how being a stay at home mom holds me back from winning at my business because it creates the problem everyone can commiserate with that allows me to fail or not be successful.
I have watched enough of your videos to recognize my crazy 8 and thankfully, I can snap myself out of it by changing my physiology and doing one small task that I can instant control and change, then I manually change my mood and take myself out of the destructive depressing physiology; BUT it is not enough to take me to the next state.
I am not sure I can trust myself with the next level. I do not know what it looks like with me in the spotlight. I am afraid to imagine it. I do not want the spotlight because I AM great. I would like it because I have DONE great. What could I do great???? I fail at mothering and resent it although I love my kids. How can my kids be both my joy and my ball and chain at the same time?? I don’t know, but for me they are. How can I be great at my business? I am a simple stay at home mom – see the argument I put out there to the world? It works! It gives me certainty, significance, connection, and PERMISSION to not change.
So now what? Now what Tony? When will you make the video that addresses the person that I can see myself in? I came close with the guy who stuttered and you helped him stop stuttering and he boldly proclaimed on your stage that he was great. I do not want to be great because I say so though. I truly admire my parents for serving at such a selfless level that they were honored for it. Yet I hated them for it because (a) in some ways they ignored our needs to give to the world, and (b) now I feel as if I am a DNA deficient offspring of these Super Novas. Sorta like having a child with a disability. Not much can be expected of the disabled. They certainly aren’t expected to be LIKE their parents.
So, I love the backstage. I get my imagination juices when I think of myself as the Puppeteer. I don’t want to be the President, I want to be the one pulling the strings of the President. THAT is how powerful I am in my dreams. So, now that I have admitted it – NOW WHAT Tony????? Now what? Will my dream be my constant nightmare?
How does a simple housewife in a lower middle class home become as POWERFUL as she is in her dreams, when I can’t even master being a simple housewife?
I want my mother’s life. She had helpers to take care of the MUNDANE wifely stuff, and she had time to explore her horizons, and a husband who was secure enough to encourage and lift her. My husband is very secure and he would lift me, if he knew how, and could afford it – he is an amazing man. I am the one with the power nightmares with no place to be the star in my own movie. Because of my faith, I refuse to be head of this household and give him the respect and honor, and I check in with him to ensure he does feel it because I KNOW I could run over him like a freight train and he would be powerless to stop me. I love him though. He is an awesome good man, and he can manage me – because I let him, and he knows I let him. Like a pit bull that is fully capable of killing its master but respectfully loves and obeys. I FEEL POWERFUL Tony and it is creating PROBLEMS as I have NO OUTLET for it!!!!!!
I am blunt, undiplomatic, truthful, decisive, and people either love me or hate me, but there is no being on the fence with how they feel about me – if they know me. I am unapologetic about my faith, but willing to change my mind with solid argument and evidence (except in my belief in Jesus, I will die for that, and yes, I have processed that possibility with the way the world is, and I am fully prepared to die for my faith). I do not ever not break a commitment I make to others, but I often break them with myself.
One day I hope to be able to afford your conference, and I hope to be the one you call on, and I hope you will help me finally conquer whatever is holding me back because the only analogy that seems to best describe me right now is – a bull in a china shop.
The soda pop is shaken Tony. Do you DARE release the cap?
Trudy
Hello, thank you for your amazing insights throughout these videos! I went through the final exercises of the last session and I defined my quality problem that is feeding my safe problem ( doubting, sadness, frustration,tired) :” I doubt if the many differences and different interests my partner and I have, makes me live my life to the fullest …(this also counts for my partner of course).” I understand that with my safe-problem behavior I try to meet my needs of connection, variety and grothw. I’m glad that I know that now but…still I feel stuck… it’s like I’m not convinced that the other needs that are present in our relationship (certainty, significance,contribution) are enough to survive. How can I solve this quality problem? I have the impression that I’ve missed something important here in order to transform the problem into a happy state of being. Is it possible to clarify this for me? Thank you very much! Katie
These videos were amazing. I’m almost embarrassed to say it,because I’ve been studying the human mind and emotions for years and I feel I should know this. Tony Robbins has simplified our basic needs and he’s such a great communicator that it was like hearing this for the first time. Thank you Tony, I’ve learned something about myself and something very significant that will help me serve others more efficiently.
Thank you for explaining this well-rounded outline of what motivates us in this life, while noting where the blocks come in from reaching our full purposes. You roll so many philosophies/practices into one, in such a clear & concise way! You make my heart dance, and inspire me with the broad community you are building with your work. Thank you!
Hi, I learnt so much with this video!
I am going to UPW in 2013.
Looking forward to it!
Flower me up petal
Working with the angels of the night,
They come to you in a clear vision God Like…
Connected together in total non-judgement but in peace and serenity,
They come to you to assist you to assist humanity.
In the Law of when we give we receive,
Make sure to charge them back before they leave…
If you can imagine how you would like to treated,
Treat them like that whilst they are seated…
This mutual exchange of love,
Will exalt their spirit from above…
You have know need to just use your imagination,
The angels in heaven will assist you in their celebration…
Call all the archangels down to celebrate this beauty before you,
They will leave and in their totality adore you…
When you see these wonderful human souls,
That have come to you as they see in you a recognised joint goal..
Look at their body ask how could you serve them to,
Exalt them and they will exalt you…
In your minds eye let your colourful imagine extend,
Think of all the way your assist this dear friend…
Does their back look in pain? Are their eyes looking sad?
How does their heart feel can you make them feel glad.
Any meditation like this,
Will send another spirit into transcended bliss…
If you feel no connection with spirit at your feet,
Just lie down and think of someone lovingly and imagine you meet…
I love Tony with all my heart body and soul you delicious man with the largest heart in the world lets off load those shoulder shall
God Bless you and Chloe in the highest, please let me serve you equally.
Offer Nothing But Love This Christmas
I spoke to my husband in an altered mental state,
As we lay in bed together, I realised each thought I did create…
With the self-realising understanding of how thoughts can affect a human soul,
I look back with sadness at how I treated him sometimes in his role…
It is Christmas what can we do?
Offer forgiveness and gratitude for all that life has given you…
See a person in their divine essence,
And this will assist you to treat them with credence…
What are they withholding from you?
A tender loving touch ask where you are acting like this to?
With the spiritual law of what comes out returns to us,
Believe that somewhere you have not act in the highest…
I freely admit and was told in my dream state,
As I mediated sending love to my mate…
That for the last six years I had mentally imposed on him,
That he was to blame and held him in sin…
By not taking responsibility for my self ordained fate,
I sometime looked to him disrespectfully and blamed him for what I did create…
Thinking with him resentment at times,
That whilst he worked I was depleted at home and did not feel fine…
When you express a need… and a partner sets the limit of what he or she can do,
Accept the situation then look inwards at how you can alter the situation to…
Look at your husband/wife as your dear friend,
Then handle him lovingly you will be astonished how love can mend…
Write a list of what leaves you in dissatisfaction,
And then imagine an altered life filled with attraction…
Remember deep held fears are usually what is the preventative to help you reach what you can achieve,
So as your mentally untangle them you will receive much inner relief…
Healing time is essential as you touch the void of your old life,
In the new life you will become instrumental…
Go to self help course take one single step,
Think of a way you can have your deepest needs met…
THIS IS IT THIS IS YOUR LIFE
DO SOMETHING TODAY TO ASSISST YOU WITH STRIFE
I look at you now Tim my eyes feel sad to see,
How I have treated you unkindly and I ask you to forgive me lovingly.
Forgive yourself to as until you realise who you are,
You definitely have not been practising self love which is essential if you are going to unlock the key to your star…
I Love the World
Love Eleanor Newton
LOVE IS what offers the key to your divine imprint
I thank God for Anthony Robbins he has open my eyes to alot of things in my life i have lost myself and i amtrying to find myself again . This video dealing with depression is such a great help to me cant wait to see the rest.
Wow,
So Profound
I got one of those emails from positive thinking site, so I decided to watch, got very interesting .
I think it’s the best work from Tony every !!!
Thank you IM VERY GRATEFUL.
MJ
Dear all at the Robbins Madane team, I have been watching your videos non-stop since i found them on facebook and i cannot explain how they have taught me to look at my depression differently, and not to believe the story that ‘it is chemical’ and endogeneous, cannot be helped and is explained as BI-pOLAR. But your videos have unlocked the riddle and helped me to realise that by understanding why i keep going into depression I will be able by Strategic Intervenion, I can not only make myself well again, but sto it from affecting my life adversely. But more importantly, the excitement and energy I have to pass it on impulsively to help others is inexhaustible and uncontrollable. The saying that LOVE MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND IN A HAPPY ENVIRONMENT.
One comment which I would like to make is that maybe your follow-up interviews could have more emphasis on illustrationd og how each of your clients actually spread their good fortunes in their revelations, to those under their influence and care. As I think this is the very best outcome of HEALING people. Thank you so much in your very generous teachings, giving freely is such a genuine way of giving and this was the first hurdle i overcame when deciding that u were a truly genuine and generous givers and you deserve all the credit and praise for the God given gifts you all portray for the benefit of mankind.
As I live in UK, will I ever meet any of you I would love to come to one of your seminars and be helped with my life-long depression, which i am getting very tied of.
Carmelina Taplin
You’re a great teacher Tony! I loved this and learned so much. I will definitely be watching this again at a better time so I can work through it myself in detail. Thank you for doing what you do.
My appreciation is beyond words, Tony & Madanes! Thanks!
The turning point for me is realizing, that I`ve adopted a false believe, which hinders me… I trust the info from the book “Astrology of the Soul” by Jan Spiller -(karmic astrology about North Nodes) It`s true – I know it, but I took it wrong into practice… I mislead myself! How?…
It gives understanding what qualities we come with from past lives, so: “What tendencies to leave behind” & “What attributes to develop”. So far – wonderful guidance!!!
But…I froze on the bad inheritance… It felt impossible to change… inevitable…It seemed, like it will shape my life for ever!…I was, I am still living my South Node tendencies, instead of my new – North Node developments’…
I compared with others`s North Nodes…”So that`s why they are successful!”…”It`s easy for them to do it, because they have learned it from their past lives!…” And by the way – it is so! I still believe it!
What is the Aha!?… I failed to focus on my CHANCES & ON THE FACT that IF THIS LIFE is given to me to develop my new attributes, this means I CAN!…, so the old me is possible to change! The open doors SHOULD BE THERE for me!…
It`s not that the old inheritance is an inevitable trap, but it just clarifies my GOAL!
Honestly, I`ve read this book many times in 15 years and always thought, I am living my evolved development already!… Now I sow how I have lied myself, because of many other things, that I really do as a high evolved soul, but not fulfilling my life`s goal, keeps me on alert, that s.th is still not OK!…So…I can`t experience happiness, unless I do it!…
( In past lives I helped other person to be #1 and he was meeting my needs to survive & I did not care of my self worth… In this lifetime, I need to develop self confidence by doing my money alone & feel self worthy!)
Wow!…Being deep, serious, responsible, knowledgeable…, forgiving, giving…etc, how long we can mislead ourselves by becoming blind for a simple truth!
Thanks God I met you!
OMG! what a great video! So amazing how easy we are trapped in distructive, sabbotaging patterns . If I knew….. about those patterns long time ago i would not waste my life in self pity and hopelesness . I love the way how Tony is diasecting the emotions and put them on the light to recognize them … is genius.
Outstanding Relationships w/Self- So powerful! I started part one and thought this isn’t for me, I’ll just see where it goes. Boy was I wrong!!! I learned so much about me and my needs (the good the bad and the ugly). While watching and taking 12 pages of notes, it occurred to me, I so drew this series to me. Several years ago, I decided, I am tired of being stuck.I’ve been on a journey for about 4 yrs now facing my fears and there have been many. Last year I decided it time to move forward. Fast forward to today, it is manifesting and this series has helped me move faster than before. It is my time to be the student and teach and also serve God and to lead others to Him. I accept who I am now and look forward to the growth and contribution. I am so ready and excited and grateful to you Tony! I appreciate your giving back. I receive it and share it with others. Thank you so much.
Patrice Davies
I love how much Tony respects mothers, thank you for that. When speaking to the mother and she became emotional, so did Tony, this showed me he understood her. Trying to be both Mother and Father is SO hard. Thank you for another great video. x
Louise. Ireland.
Thank you somuch for posting this video.
Ilove this video,very helpful.Iwill be coming back to this video.
Man, Tony I just wanted you to know you pack a punch.Thanks for sharing these powerful lifechanging videos.These are helping me open my eye’s to the truth of our problems.Not only do they empower me but give me the keys to help other’s as well.
Amazing, so much of what took place, opened up so many thought process’s for me. I am able to see more clearly where my needing to meet the six human needs are and has prevented me from truly following the path I wish to follow in the career and relationship areas of my life.
Thank you so much for these amazing training’s one day very soon I will be working as a Strategic Interventionist and be present in a loving committed relationship. Sue UK
Thank you so very much for making these video’s available. I would not have discovered what was happening to me without them. With great love and utmost appreciation